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does lemmy have a chat and dms like reddit?

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  • W This user is from outside of this forum
    W This user is from outside of this forum
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    like can i send a dm to someone and talk to them here?

    empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE tropicaldingdong@lemmy.worldT H rglullis@communick.newsR S 6 Replies Last reply
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    • W [email protected]

      like can i send a dm to someone and talk to them here?

      empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE This user is from outside of this forum
      empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE This user is from outside of this forum
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      #2

      Yes. Click on any person’s username and under their bio there is a button to send a direct message.
      Not really a live chat thing yet, lemmy does not have the backend for that.

      Note, DM’s over Lemmy are NOT encrypted, only obfuscated, any federated server can read the DM’s you send. Keep that in mind when choosing content to talk about.

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      • W [email protected]

        like can i send a dm to someone and talk to them here?

        tropicaldingdong@lemmy.worldT This user is from outside of this forum
        tropicaldingdong@lemmy.worldT This user is from outside of this forum
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        #3

        We can chat. What would you like to chat about?

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        • tropicaldingdong@lemmy.worldT [email protected]

          We can chat. What would you like to chat about?

          R This user is from outside of this forum
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          #4

          Reminded me of the following for some reason:

          https://multimedia-english.com/print/preview/german-coastguard-44

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          • R [email protected]

            Reminded me of the following for some reason:

            https://multimedia-english.com/print/preview/german-coastguard-44

            tropicaldingdong@lemmy.worldT This user is from outside of this forum
            tropicaldingdong@lemmy.worldT This user is from outside of this forum
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            #5

            👏 👏 👏 👏

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            • W [email protected]

              like can i send a dm to someone and talk to them here?

              H This user is from outside of this forum
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              #6

              Yea just don’t call yourself ’fediverse chick’

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              • H [email protected]

                Yea just don’t call yourself ’fediverse chick’

                correctalias@piefed.blahaj.zoneC This user is from outside of this forum
                correctalias@piefed.blahaj.zoneC This user is from outside of this forum
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                #7

                Don’t remind me…

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                • empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE [email protected]

                  Yes. Click on any person’s username and under their bio there is a button to send a direct message.
                  Not really a live chat thing yet, lemmy does not have the backend for that.

                  Note, DM’s over Lemmy are NOT encrypted, only obfuscated, any federated server can read the DM’s you send. Keep that in mind when choosing content to talk about.

                  sirxdaemon@lemmy.caS This user is from outside of this forum
                  sirxdaemon@lemmy.caS This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #8

                  Wait, what? It’s just the sender and receiver’s instances that can read the message; it’s not just any server right?

                  empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE rglullis@communick.newsR nutomic@lemmy.mlN 3 Replies Last reply
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                  • sirxdaemon@lemmy.caS [email protected]

                    Wait, what? It’s just the sender and receiver’s instances that can read the message; it’s not just any server right?

                    empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE This user is from outside of this forum
                    empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE This user is from outside of this forum
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                    I believe you’re right but don’t know enough about the real back end magic to confirm. I want to say I once read that the DM was always broadcast to all servers but that seems pointless.
                    What matters is that dm’s are not private and should not be considered private, both in transit (during sending) and at rest (copy sitting at each server)

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                    • empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE [email protected]

                      I believe you’re right but don’t know enough about the real back end magic to confirm. I want to say I once read that the DM was always broadcast to all servers but that seems pointless.
                      What matters is that dm’s are not private and should not be considered private, both in transit (during sending) and at rest (copy sitting at each server)

                      L This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #10

                      Someone could point out where I am wrong but essentially it is the same as a standard email in that there is a plain text copy stored in both the send and receive instance. Maybe it is easier to think of as just another comment where instead of @domain.xyz has read access, just the specified [email protected] has read access. The server admins could still see them if they wanted to, just like Yahoo, Google, etc can in plain text (which is how SPAM filters often work, as in if the email was actually encrypted they wouldnt know the content inside it to try to filter it out.)

                      More end to end options are coming to the fediverse, (Matrix has been around, I saw something last week another was coming) but really most people don’t ever encrypt data they send to others, and don’t care usually.

                      See: Epsteins emails being accessible without decrypting anything. There were people who supposedly found his password in the released files, and just logged into outlook or whatever with it. End to end encryption should have required them to have s/mime (handshake performed) on that specific device to see the emails, so it would have all been garbledegook.
                      Aka plaintext was stored on both server ends until deleted by the companies/users.

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                      • sirxdaemon@lemmy.caS [email protected]

                        Wait, what? It’s just the sender and receiver’s instances that can read the message; it’s not just any server right?

                        rglullis@communick.newsR This user is from outside of this forum
                        rglullis@communick.newsR This user is from outside of this forum
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                        The fact that a message is addressed to a single person does not mean that it’s only sent to that person. In theory, anyone following you will receive a notification about the message.

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                        • W [email protected]

                          like can i send a dm to someone and talk to them here?

                          rglullis@communick.newsR This user is from outside of this forum
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                          Yes, but if you want a real one-to-one, private chat system use Matrix or XMPP. Treat anything you write on Lemmy as public information.

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                          • W [email protected]

                            like can i send a dm to someone and talk to them here?

                            S This user is from outside of this forum
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                            #13

                            Can someone send me a dm so I can verify it works?

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                            • empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE [email protected]

                              Yes. Click on any person’s username and under their bio there is a button to send a direct message.
                              Not really a live chat thing yet, lemmy does not have the backend for that.

                              Note, DM’s over Lemmy are NOT encrypted, only obfuscated, any federated server can read the DM’s you send. Keep that in mind when choosing content to talk about.

                              Q This user is from outside of this forum
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                              That is not true. They are encrypted in transit, but not e2e

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                              • rglullis@communick.newsR [email protected]

                                Yes, but if you want a real one-to-one, private chat system use Matrix or XMPP. Treat anything you write on Lemmy as public information.

                                nutomic@lemmy.mlN This user is from outside of this forum
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                                #15

                                Not public. Private messages can only be accessed by your own admin, and the admin of the recipient. Other instances cannot access it in any way.

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                                • empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE [email protected]

                                  Yes. Click on any person’s username and under their bio there is a button to send a direct message.
                                  Not really a live chat thing yet, lemmy does not have the backend for that.

                                  Note, DM’s over Lemmy are NOT encrypted, only obfuscated, any federated server can read the DM’s you send. Keep that in mind when choosing content to talk about.

                                  nutomic@lemmy.mlN This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  #16

                                  This is not correct, Lemmy sends private messages only to the single recipient server. Other instances cannot access it at all.

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                                  • sirxdaemon@lemmy.caS [email protected]

                                    Wait, what? It’s just the sender and receiver’s instances that can read the message; it’s not just any server right?

                                    nutomic@lemmy.mlN This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    You are right.

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                                    • rglullis@communick.newsR [email protected]

                                      The fact that a message is addressed to a single person does not mean that it’s only sent to that person. In theory, anyone following you will receive a notification about the message.

                                      nutomic@lemmy.mlN This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      #18

                                      This is wrong, Lemmy doesnt send private messages to followers.

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                                      • W [email protected]

                                        like can i send a dm to someone and talk to them here?

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                                        It has DMs, it does not have live chat. For federated live chat, there’s Matrix.

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                                        • S [email protected]

                                          Can someone send me a dm so I can verify it works?

                                          S This user is from outside of this forum
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                                          #20

                                          You’re about to get so many beans

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